The objective of the treatment of orgasm inhibition is to modify the patient's tendency to obsessively observe his/her pre orgastic sensations and to foster abandonment to erotic feelings, which is a necessary condition of orgastic release. These aims can be implemented by structuring the situation so that the patient receives effective penile or clitoral stimulation under the most tranquil conditions that can be arranged. At the same time, he/she is distracted from the obsessive self observations. The usual means of distraction is fantasy, bu! external distractions such as reading or observing pictures or films may also be employed to circumvent the difficulties some patients experience with fantasy.

The following method is employed by our group unless the evaluation reveals reasons to modify the treatment plan.

Total Anorgasmia -- Males and Females (Anorgasmia is far more prevalent in females)

If the patient is totally anorgastic, the initial aim of treatment is to have the patient experience an orgasm while she is alone, as follows.

1) Self stimulation of the penis or clitoris -- this is first done manually, If manual stimulation is not sufficient to overcome the resistance to orgasm, the intensity of the stimulus is increased. Towards this end males employ a lubricant and females a vibrator.

2) Concomitant distraction by imagery, This may entail concentration on the person's favorite erotic fantasy, on reading erotic literature or on viewing erotic pictures, or on a non erotic neutral image. The mental imagery occurs while the patient is stimulating him/herself.

After the patient is comfortable 'with his/her own sexual feelings and orgasm, or if she/he, can only reach orgasm when he/she is alone, the next step entails learning to have an orgasm in the presence of the partner. Since shared sex is usually far more anxiety provoking than sex when one is alone, orgasm alone usually precedes shared orgasm unless there is profound resistance to masturbation.

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